Of use

There are several handmade things that I use in my daily life, yet haven't been finding worthy of photos and blog posts, because they are so ordinary and so simple. Yet these are also the things that I use daily, like the kitchen towel hanging on the oven handle. My mother has crocheted dozens of these loops onto kitchen towels and gives most of them away; the drink coasters in the photo below are ones that I've made several of and which get tucked under glasses, mugs, and a teapot. Sometimes it's the little things that make a house a home.

Kitchen towel with crocheted hanging loop

Kitchen towel with crocheted hanging loop

To Be of Use

The people I love the best
jump into work head first
without dallying in the shallows
and swim off with sure strokes almost out of sight.
They seem to become natives of that element,
the black sleek heads of seals
bouncing like half-submerged balls.

I love people who harness themselves, an ox to a heavy cart,
who pull like water buffalo, with massive patience,
who strain in the mud and the muck to move things forward,
who do what has to be done, again and again.

I want to be with people who submerge
in the task, who go into the fields to harvest
and work in a row and pass the bags along,
who are not parlor generals and field deserters
but move in a common rhythm
when the food must come in or the fire be put out.

The work of the world is common as mud.
Botched, it smears the hands, crumbles to dust.
But the thing worth doing well done
has a shape that satisfies, clean and evident.
Greek amphoras for wine or oil, 
Hopi vases that held corn, are put in museums
but you know they were made to be used. 
The pitcher cries for water to carry
and a person for work that is real. 

Marge Piercy

Crochet drink coasters

Crochet drink coasters

The other door

Beach stones, ready to cover with crochet

Beach stones, ready to cover with crochet

Yesterday we packed up the office my father ran his business out of for 31 years. I've spent almost every Saturday for the past several years working there, sometimes other days as well, getting involved with every level of the business. When Dad went on vacation, I covered for him. When Dad got sick, I covered for him. When Mom was on vacation or out sick, I brought Dad sandwiches. When Dad was running just a little late in the morning, I would walk over to the bakery and get coffee. Growing up, there would be days where we met Dad at the office after work, did our homework, stood on a stool to help at the register, filed client cards, answered the phone. On a few occasions, I went to the office so I could type up my homework (yes kids, once upon a time, you had to turn in typewritten papers at school, banged out one letter at a time directly onto the paper). 

Dad is not retiring just yet; moving out of this office is the first step in reducing the amount of time he spends commuting and working. Tomorrow I'll go back to the office with one of my sisters and we'll do some cleaning and take out the last of the boxes before Dad hands over the keys to the building manager, and that door will close behind us. 

I'm waiting for the other door now, the one that proverbially opens as one closes. There may be many doors (at least one of them being not having to get up early on Saturday mornings).

"Nothing is carved in stone" - that'll be my Dad's sense of humor for you

"Nothing is carved in stone" - that'll be my Dad's sense of humor for you

In the meantime, I now have this handful of beach stones, which we were using to hold down the curling wallpaper along a window ledge. I'm going to sit down and start covering them with crochet. One of them reflects Dad's sense of humor, and I think it will be the one I start with. 

Smocked Mug Jacket

Smocked Mug Jacket​

Smocked Mug Jacket​

The pattern has been rewritten to accomodate a standard sized mug (with information on how to alter it to fit other sizes), professionally tech-edited by Eleanor Dixon, and now includes a step-by-step photo tutorial for the smocking stitch pattern. $4.50 of the $5.50 purchase price goes to Médecins Sans Frontières / Doctors Without Borders as part of the Tricoteuses Sans Frontières/Knitters Without Borders fundraising efforts. The pattern is also available for free (download links are at the bottom of this page). 

Please note that is is a knitting pattern - a set of instructions for knitting a mug cozy. This is not a finished item, and I do not sell finished cozies (if I did, the retail price would be at least $50). If you are looking to buy a ready to use mug cozy, I recommend going to Etsy and doing a search for "mug cozy" or "coffee cozy." You can see a roundup of my favorites on Pinterest

Who is MSF/DWB?
MSF is a medical relief organization dedicated to bringing help to people in the worst circumstances in the world. MSF goes where other relief organizations (NGO’s) will not. Where circumstances are the most desperate, the most dangerous and the most hopeless... you will find Médecins Sans Frontières. MSF is transparent and neutral without any political or religious affiliations, and does not accept donations from Pharmaceutical companies or companies that make Tobacco or Alcohol. Part of their job is to witness and report violations of human rights and dignity. MSF helps all persons who need them, regardless of their race, religion, politics or gender. MSF won the Nobel Peace Prize in 1999.
— Stephanie Pearl-McPhee

The revision also makes the free version of the pattern identical to the fundraiser version of the pattern. Free version: download pattern and download tutorial.